Study circle Summary :

Forgivness (Part 1)

In part 1, we delved into Swami’s teachings on the quality of Kshama (forgiveness) is like a third eye and how it empowers a human being. We discussed the six characteristics of Kshama: Sathyam (Truth), Dharma (virtue), Ahimsa (non-violence), Yajna (Sacrifice), Santhosha (Happiness) and Dhaya (Compassion). Swami talks about the Kauravas as best example of how when one develops jealously and hatred towards others (becomes demonic), Karna (ego), Sakuni (evil adviser) and in turn bringing ruin upon themselves. Swami beautifully explains through examples about 4 key characteristics one must develop: Control of inner sensory organs (Sama), differentiate good from bad through enquiry (Vichara), realise the divinity of Atma to achieve contentment (Santrupthi) and one naturally get detachment (Vairagya) as they develop the other 3 characteristics.
Swami shares with examples six key qualities of zeal, determination, courage, intelligence, ability and heroism that in turn manifest into Divine help and in turn success in one’s endeavors. Swami also mentions that from time to time these qualities confront various difficulties and trials in the form of losses, troubles, pains, sufferings and calamity and how a person requires one or more of these qualities to overcome these troubles.
Through group discussions in smaller groups, we explored the concept of forgiveness and forgetting (and how they are interconnected), impact of ego on self and others and importance of patience. Some of the devotees also shared famous Thirukkals (short couplets from famous Tamil poet – Thiruvalluvar) with examples that explains forbearance. We also talked about how a mother’s patience plays a vital role in a child’s development. We concluded the 1st session through namasmarana by chanting 108 “Om sri Sairam